Why do you think that sex in relationships with a special person is bad and sex in marriage is good?   We don't think that sex is bad, after all God made it and He made it to be good. But as Christians and we believe that sex was designed by God for a marriage relationship and because we love God, that’s what we choose to do. There is so much emotional stuff that comes from having sex. It’s like when you glue two pieces of tissue paper together, when you try and pull them apart bits of each paper get left behind. Most of us will spend lots of our lives thinking we have found “the one” and eventually we will do. But to give a piece of ourselves away each time we get in a relationship can risk us being hurt, rejected and feeling worthless. There can also be the physical complications like S.T.I’s, HIV or unwanted pregnancies. It’s your choice to make though. This is the one we made. But you should never have sex just because you feel pressured by your boy/girl friend or by your friends.
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